Rehab Part 4

Er…hello, it’s been a while. I’m on day 27. Don’t get to time to write anything as it’s just go go go all the time.

Still sharing a room with Shagger Larry and his new teeth. Someone, I think it was the Fat Canadian said he looks like Jar-Jar Binks. He totally does in a tanned, tattooed fisherman kinda way.

He’s now grooming this younger girl from West Lothian – she’s just in the door and has a high-bridged nose and piercing blue eyes. Very flighty and nervous, maybe that’s just around me, who isn’t, but fuck when she kicks off it’s terrifying. She’s tall, athletic, looks and sounds like she is more than capable of dealing out a real kicking. Shagger’s taking his life in his hands here…

Now that I’ve been here for a while I’ve started to identify the rot. House Co-ordinator Gummy Smug is having a relationship with one of the females. That’s a no-no here but then he’s not supposed to be smoking fags in his room whilst flicking through porno mags as he was caught in the act by staff the other day. Nothing’s been done. His parents came in one night he was out and told us what a lying, manipulative prick he was for years and I think he still is.

Gummy Smug loves himself. Pure talks the talk as well, so earnest and forthright at the check-ins, all false sincerity when he tells us he’s doing everything he can for all of us with the staff and he’s worn out from all the caring. Bullshit. He bends the rules and blanks me when I try to challenge him on it. He’s at it. Calls me “Candy Ball” all the time which literally never gets old.

So much to say but I can’t be arsed right now. I’ve skulked to my room early so I can get a proper kip in and a shower before breakfast tomorrow.

I’ll leave it with this – NotPete and I played live last night on front of about 150 people. Been jamming a lot lately with NotPete and really like him. Anyway we were pretty damned good. I was playing lead guitar whilst he played rhythm and sang. No nerves, wasn’t even bothered when I got on and off stage. What’s that about? I should have been shite-ing it but nothing. I even fucked the intro to Johnny B Goode, stopped, raised a finger to the audience and did it again perfect. Maybe it’s old age. Anyway, signing off, tomorrow is 4 weeks clean.

Rehab Part 3

Hello. It’s 0640 on a Monday morning. Dark. Like my head. I got the rage last night and it’s not really gone away. A series of events kicked it off.

Firstly, this guy I know from Dunfy turned up. He’s been through the program already and is in the re-entry housing. All positive. Let’s call him Raver Ron. Used to be a druggie raver. Anyway, he was hopping from foot to foot, chewing gum like if he stops he’ll be shot. All smiles and caring chat like “[a mutual acquaintance] has been on holiday, I pure CAN’T WAIT to ask her about it when she gets back!” All this saccharine bollocks while he stepped around incessantly. I thought – is this the cure? – is this what they want me to be? Fuck that. I don’t want to be some uber-happy prick that can’t stand still. It was so fucking false. Bullshit. Liar. Bugged out as quick as I could.

Secondly, Shagger Larry – my “buddy” and sexual predator of the Welcome House didn’t turn up for room cleaning duties. Cleaned it myself. When I confronted him about it he replied that he was bust doing “senior work” – wanker. As I have had to get up so early this morning for paybacks to the community I dropped my acoustic guitar next to him. BAANNGGG. Cunt jumped up like he’d been electrocuted. Hahaha.

Thirdly, I have been put back into the cleaning department so now have to get up, do an hour’s cleaning, have some breakfast and then do more bastard cleaning. I HATE IT. I HATE IT.

Also I have this BPD thing which makes emotions I experience quite extreme. Like anger. And the cunts in this place are poking me with a big stiuck. Oh how character building.

So I’m fucked off with Shagger. I go from good guy to cunt in about 2.5 seconds. I’m like an alienation Ferrari.

Spent most of last night listening to sad/angry angry songs in my room. Nobody gave a fuck.

Had a shower this morning in the bathroom encrusted in black mould. I have noticed a phenomenon I like to call Shower Buckaroo. Whenever someone else gets into the shower it goes pure freezing, so I turn the heat up, this takes heat from other showers so they get turned up too. Before long everyone has the heat on full. Then someone gets out and switches off – SCALDING. I was going to talk more but I have to go clean some shit. Fag first. See ya.

Rehab Part 2

Awright? That’s the Glesga greeting of choice around here. It’s about 0830 on a grey Sunday morning in Soapdodge City. I have been awakened by my roommate/buddy Larry.

When you start this program you are in a thing called the Welcome House. Not a separate building or anything like that but instead a grade. There are four grades of seniority: Welcome House, Part 1, Part 2 and Senior. I suppose it’s to make you feel like you are making some sort of progress through this madhouse.

So Welcome House inmates get a buddy and I got Larry, a North East fisherman. Snazzy clothes and new teeth have turned him into a bit of a shagger. The girls love him and he’s already been in the shit for predatory grooming of Welcome House females.

He’s got a busted shoulder the now, no idea why, walks around like holding his arm like Admiral Nelson, or Napoleon, or Caesar. Why did all those guys do that with their arm? Fuck it – I’m going to give that a try too.

I found Frankie Boyle’s autobiography and started reading it a few days ago. It’s like a subversive counter-culture. All day I get told to be nice and caring and polite and at night I have Frankie explaining the joys of being a right cunt. Currently Frankie is winning.

Larry’s alarm goes off at 5am with whatever pish CD he has in it, he grunts, slaps it off then it goes every hour after that. Fucking wakes me up.

Secretly I think he wants me to fuck off so he can have a wank in peace. So, today in Frankie mode, I started thumping the wardrobe to the beat, coughing, farting, going in and out of the room banging the door, all in all it really cheered me up.

Was jamming last night with NotPete Docherty. That’s a shit name. I’ll think of a better one later. He’s 26, a Libertines obsessive, sings great, massive confidence, does his perfect indie hair with straighteners. He just batters out barre chords up and down the fretboard at high speed while singing like a bird. Cunt. Always grabs my guitar when I leave the room because it’s a Taylor, leagues better than his pish Epiphone. So anyway, I’ve written some songs wiyth offbeat switches and unusual chord modifications. It’s fun watching him trying and trying to get it. [Author’s note: What a prick I was those days] He get’s the chord shapes eventually but can’t pick up the rhythms or intonation.

He’s an alright guy though really, got a lot further than me with music. Supported the View, had a good following in Dundee then NotPete he was a rockstar and hit the skag like his namesake. For the record I don’t give much of a fuck about the Libertines. You get to my age and you often feel like you’ve heard it all before. I remember a 40 something telling me that in some grim banking job hell when I was a 20 something and thought my band was the berries. But as I say NotPete is a good guy. Talked me down from some shitty thinking a few times.

The girls kicked off WWIII last night. I’ve tried to understand but it all seems so trivial I sort of lose interest before I can comprehend who said what to who when. Stick a bunch of women together and they always end up fighting sooner or later. [Author’s note: Sorry to all women everywhere for that slur]

Us men like to think we’re better than that, like it never gets that far, but in reality I think we hate each other just as much but keep a bit quieter because when it kicks off we really do kick the shit out of each other.

So, another day of shit is about to begin. If there’s any more banging dance music and stupid requests for “lets all dance” I will go postal.

Before I go I’ll have another moan. This happens to me all the time. I’m talking to some guy – usually the Fat Canadian and someone turns up. I’m in mid-sentence and he just turns away “What’s up Buddy?” then he’s off talking to them. FUCK YOU! I fucking hate that shite. And in that mood of enthusiastic hatred I should sign off for the day and start the dream again. May it be easy and not involve fucking cleaning anything.

Oh yeah, one more thing, I was scratching my healing wrist yesterday and a wee HIV+ girl coughed right on it. So if I die of AIDS you know why. Too de loo.

Rehab Part 1

Hi and welcome to this new blog. I’m taking it straight from my notepad when I can sneak up to the IT suite, very little editing so may not be my usual suave style. Thanks for reading. First one’s a bit dry. Sorry.

 

Bonne Matin, Guten Morgen, Hola to my international fans. After the whimpering success of my psychiatric ward blog I have decided to enter a six month rehab program so I have something else to write about. OK that’s not exactly true. In reality I’m here because I’m a washed alcoholic druggie who can’t accept that the party was over fifteen years ago.

I’m going to call this delightful resort the Seagull to avoid referring to it in person. There is a key difference between the last blog and this one. This I am here, last time I wrote about my experiences a year after I left. Now it’s 0820 on a Saturday morning – a time I have heard but not experienced for a long time. So here I am sitting with a coffee and a small pad of paper which keeps sticking to the tablecloth, surrounded by bowls of fruit in varying stages of decay and a loud hum from the milk refrigerator.

I have had an eventful first two weeks in the program. I would have wrote earlier but frankly I’ve spent most of my time crying, pitying myself, being bombed in diazepam and wondering what the fuck I was thinking checking myself in here.

I used to go to these meetings – Smart recovery, a couple of years of turning up every week and bullshitting that I was keeping my drink and drugs habit under control and offering sage advice to people who have been to hell and back.

We have a system of “tasters” here that involves joining a department, be it Gardening, Cleaning, Co-ordination, Maintenance or kitchen. For two hours each day we get a “taste” of the extreme pleasure these activities can bestow. Week one I was cleaning – what can I say? Oh yeah, I fucking hate cleaning. Fortunately cleaning involved fifteen minutes of actual cleaning followed by 1 hour 45 of standing around with a cloth wiping things if the dept head or assistant head came by.

This week has been co-ordination which largely consists of sitting on a chair listening and responding to the varied and banal requests of the residents. Co-ordination is like a buffer between us and the staff, like a shit filter. The PC is not even networked. I spent a while half-heartedly probing it for opportunities but beyond a brute force attack on the admin account or a password cracker boot key there was nothing else to do.

Talking of computers I miss typing up shit. See this writing by hand crap, it’s killing my hand. Probably won’t be able to read it either.

We attend group after group. Three roll calls a day where take turns to stand and declare our departments and co-ordination read out the day’s schedule then we get an opportunity to stand and make announcements. These announcements are typically banal – “thankyou for my dinner kitchens, I hope everyone had a great day. Well done Bob on jumping another pishy hurdle on your arduous path the ultimate goal.” To get the fuck out of here.

Talking of getting the fuck out of here I nearly took a short cut to the finish. I started cutting myself. Initially I was half-heartedly trying to slash my wrists I suppose. I was far too chicken and the butchered BIC razor wasn’t capable of cutting deep enough. However it gave an enormous sense of relief. So I did it again. And again. People began to notice that my left wrist looked like a house cat had gone to town on it and was constantly bleeding. So a series of increasingly desperate “interventions” started.

At first it was “give me your razors”. So I gave them some razors. Then I used the remaining ones to cut again – always felt better – and I’ve never been a cutter. So then they wanted all my razors. I gave them some more. Then I cut myself again. This pissed them off for some strange reason and they demanded all the razors.

I was then a cocky bastard and said I would happily hand over every razor in my room. I also mentioned that I had razors stashed all over the shop so they couldn’t really stop me. I’d really gotten into this cutting business and didn’t want to stop, by then I thought it good for my mental health.

This pissed them off a whole lot more. So they issued me with an NTQ – Notice to Quit. I had 48 hours to appeal this in written form or I could fuck and not come back. Annoying. After 24 hours of stewing about it I wrote a semi apology of sorts. I was a bit of a smart arse and disputed their assertion that what I had done was dangerous – imagine the lasting mental trauma of finding a BIC razor where you didn’t expect it. Ooft. Isn’t worth thinking about. Etc.

I had to meet with the head honcho. The big cheese with representatives from the staff and community to decide whether I was in or out. I’d already spent three mornings up at 7am cleaning the foyer for my misdemeanours.

To be fair I was a little emotional. I didn’t want to be kicked out. That would be a disaster. Probably the end of my marriage and more. So I was engaged in the process.

They went easy on me entirely missing the cynicism in my “apology” and taking it for real remorse. Plew. I was happy to get through it but I also thought “Holy fuck, I’ve got another five and a half months of this shit”.

That’ll do for now campers. Hi de li ho.

Psych Ward 8 – Final

Welcome. Welcome to the end of days. The restaurant at the end of the universe. The end of my psych ward posts.
So blah de blah cyclical worlds. Much to my chagrin I got moved out my suite. Into a ward. This really sucked. Six in the ward, one toilet/shower. If you wanted privacy you had to pull the curtains across the polystyrene tramlines. Eh? There’s a song eh? No? Fair enough. https://soundcloud.com/paulwggraham/polystyrene-tramlines

No privacy. it really hit me hard, used as I was to my own shower. Not only that but Clark was in the bed next to me. “Shirley you say I once knew a Shirley.” And that wasn’t the worst. Carl was in the bed across from me. Either Carl was sleeping or Agent Bond. That would be charming but it was the smell and the snoring. Clark got up every morning and sprayed his tracksuit to the point at which I couldn’t fucking breath. Carl took his shoes off at bedtime to unleash a pervasive anti-sleep cheddar aroma.

Couldnae hack it.

Add to that Clark’s constant requests for my mobile and Carl’s sometime requests for approval on his killing style, I was not in a nice place. I could totally get out, and Leigh played along. I got out for a night, then another night, then a weekend. I just wanted out. Away from the bullshit. The lies. Thr pretending like something is being done when really nothing is being done.
OK people in there. Really OK. I could see how they got ate up by society, but I consider some of them the best friends I ever made.

I am very drunk right now. i love them all.

They had a rugby event. TV thing. I think they may have given everyone a cup of booze but I stayed in my room. Wasn’t really feeling the atmosphere when at that time I had sworn off all intoxicants. Bollocks to that eh?

Dr Glass came back. He asked me all the questions you’d expect and then said something cool. I paraphrase.

“I like House where the main guy is an addict. He goes into rehab and tells them beforehand the lies he will come out with. LIke if he says I am better, I understand where I went wrong. It’s a lie.” The chief psych dude said that. Hahaha. Class. I pretended not to understand what he was talking about. I can dodge an ego move. If there’s one thing I ever learned…
I was in and out. A night at home a night in the ward. On the last night: I had found this book that was driving me mental. The Rotters Club by Jonathan Coe. First I was sitting in the common room firing out opal fruits and ribena, then every one had gone to bed and I was eating the book, fag breaks in the dank night, pacing round the room. I did the whole book. This told me I was alright.
They sent me home with Lorazepam and Zopiclone. Can’t go wrong with those. I will never fucking go back there. I had a number of follow up appointments until me and the holy order of doctors fell out. I see that as progress.

Where I’m at nowadays? I don’t think much about killing myself. I drink far too much. Sort of getting comfy.

Psych Ward blog 6

Psych Ward Part 6

Is it part six? I think it is. Welcome to the first sober installment of my blog, I am back on the chlorodiazepoxide and another detox. Things moved on day to day, the Fife Circle maintaining some sort of order. I lay in bed a lot, so much so in fact that I got bored and decided to lie on the floor instead. Soon Tracy was called who ascertained that I was basically fannying around. Which I was.
I tried to avoid Clark as much as I could, seeing as he couldn’t hold a conversation, but rather would retell the dreary history of his life at length. Sometimes it was unavoidable though and I found an electronic drumkit for my phone that kept him happy.
Duncan continued to demand my appreciation of his musical masterpieces. Don’t get me wrong, I thought they were good, but jeez he didn’t let up. I could see why he was banned from playing his guitar in public places. Disconcerting, that’s what I would describe him as. He would stare at you, but not say anything, making you do all the running. One night he texted his old bandmates telling them that the band would be reformed if they all agreed, but they only had five minutes to reply or it was all off. I wasn’t in a strong enough place to write him off as a twat.
There were a few good nights though, one was when Bob – an older guy who was in for suicidal intent set up a poker game, we had no money or chips so used dominoes for money. The curfew came too early so I pushed all in with not much and lost. Good fun though.
Bob ended up being my favourite person there. He was completely self aware and had lived a life of extreme sports, his body had packed up and he just didn’t fancy living the humdrum existence any more. He had a secret laundrette technique, I’m glad someone did because a lot of the inmates reeked something awful.
I spent a lot of time looking at twitter and facebook. That and hill climb racer. And my guitar. Leigh brought my bass in too and I had a jam with Duncan. I say jam, I mean he had worked out some crappy complex bassline to work with one of his songs. I, of course had to play it.
At some point I decided the nurses all hated me. I decided to confront them about it. Cue the lorazepam – the cure for all ails it seemed.
I promised Carl’s plans for the future so here goes. The first one was that we – the Ents – would go down to London and start a drug importing ring, there wouldn’t be any problem with existing gangsters because we were Scottish for fuck’s sake, we’d batter them all. As I worked in IT I would be the hacker/logistics man. I had learned by now just to go with it.
The other plan was that Carl would take himself to the woods every day and skip, then box, then skip, 24 hours a day, because as he said, you can’t overtrain, that’s a myth. He showed me his biggest punch which consisted of throwing himself across the room. I tried to tell him that he had no guard, but what was the point.
Maggie, the lady with Huntingdon’s, was annoying me – who wasn’t. She always wanted a cigarette and when she got one, took two draws and threw it away. Then she wanted a cigarette. Hours went by with her ranting at the nurses for another one.
And while I’m on the topic of downright fucking annoying, there was this old woman who was very greedy, when offered a sweet she took the biggest handful, tried to stick them all in her mouth and nearly choked. I made the mistake of sitting next to her one day.
“What’s that on the telly son?”
“It’s the news.”
“I’m just having my tea son.”
“Right.”
“What’s that on the telly?”
“The news.”
“I’m drinking my tea son, mm, I like my tea.”
I sound like a miserable bastard I know. Maybe it’s six days off the sauce. Next blog will be the last. Byee.

Psych Ward blog 5

Hi, here’s part 5.

The “Fife Circle” continued, day after day. Sometimes I had to queue up for ages, in my socks as I was getting too lazy to wear shoes, leaning against the corridor wall waiting to get meds. Eventually each of us were allowed into the pharmacy room, one at at time. A large formica table was unlocked, table-top lifted, a printout checked, then pills into a disposable cup. Pills into gob, cup filled with water and down the hatch. I think by this point I was only on fluoxentine (prozac), antabuse (makes you have an allergic reaction to alcohol), acamprosate (stops addiction, allegedly) and thiamine (helps brain repair after all that nasty alcohol abuse) with lorazepam (sedative) and zopiclone (sleeping pills) dispensed as needed. Yeah. Not much to swallow four times a day.

The lorazepam and zopiclone, I could see how one could get really into those, they just chilled everything out, made everything nice and easy. I’d like to say that I didn’t take the piss with asking for them, I tried not to, but they were nice.

I’ve realised in previous blogs that I may have got mixed up between a couple of characters, namely Carl and Clark. For the record here’s how they go:

Carl: Captain Bipolar, prone to violence, also prone to being hilarious.

Clark: Talks incessantly, can’t listen, lives in a track suit.

Glad we’ve got that cleared up. Carl was now the scariest person in the ward, sice Boab had been moved on. Never did find out what happened to Boab, there one day, gone the next. Carl was generally in one of two states, a shuffling zombie, or a hilarious madman. He would sleep for 24 hours sometimes. I think the zombie state may have been medically assisted, as sometimes he was involved in loud discourse with the nurses late into the night. Usually in a funny way. He’s be standing at their workstations in the middle of the ward ranting.

“You! You’re only authorised to make level 2 decisions. I make level 3 decisions in my sleep!”

One night I couldn’t sleep and was out in the yard smoking about 2am. The snow was falling. Carl, of course, was out in a t-shirt.

“I’m King Cahoot!” he kept shouting at me, “I command the moon!” I tried to point out the errors with that statement but I suspect cleverer and better people than me had tried and failed in the past. The best thing was just to go with it when he was like that.

There were Ents and Huorns in the ward.  The Huorns were as silent and motionless as you’d expect. I hung around with the Ents.

Talking of Lord of the Rings, there were a couple of days when a student doctor came to visit me. She was a nice person, a young Muslim lady. Can’t remember her name. She was on a grand tour of the nether regions of the NHS with other student doctors. We hit it off. She was a big Harry Potter fan and had a hankering for the hard stuff. The Tolkien. On the first day we must have talked for about 2 hours, she told me how she felt bullied by the others in her class. I could understand and somehow we got onto fantasy novels. She wanted to start on the Tolkien and had question after question. In my formative years I learned that shit through and through so was proud to display proper nerdy knowledge. She came back the day after but I was not good, I had taken to lying on the floor, don’t know why I just wanted out of everything. I was thoroughly pissed off and she left sharpish.

A worker in the ward, Tracy was starting to visit with regularity. She was like the suicide detector. Had her own difficulties which I heard at length. She escorted me to the café and we talked. She was largely talking about herself and her life but I knew that she was assessing me. She wasn’t a nurse, I don’t really know what her position was. Thing was, she was really nice and I warmed to her immediately. I hope her life is going well for her, but once you leave you never find out that kind of shit.

Leigh, my wife, was coming in every night. We watched films, talked, hugged. She was really strong in this time. It surprised me how much backbone she had. I always knew she was tough but still. One night we went to go to the café and I was told that I wasn’t allowed. It was hard. I was still on suicide watch and the nurses weren’t that keen on me going out. Eventually they relented. When we got back, my “support worker” turned up. This was a nurse who I had never talked to but her name was written on the board in my room. So she must have been supporting me in some way. I am being sarcastic. This was Nurse “Saysitlikeitis”. A formidable grey haired woman. She told my wife about a hitherto undisclosed suicide attempt. I mean she didn’t realise but I didn’t need that. Blustered her way out of it with “I call a spade a spade” chat. She never spoke to me again.

Leigh left me tv shows, food, coffee and love. I cannot understate how great she was during this period. I’m so goddammed lucky to be married to her.

On a wintery-sun-day in the yard Clark scratched his and a long past lover’s initials onto a slab. He talked about it like it was last week. There was no fucking way it was last week, last year or maybe ever.

Next time on the blog you can barely look through your fingers at, Carl’s plans for the future. Clark.

Life in the ward part 4

Hello reader, yadda yadda, part 4 of my nuthouse blog.

After my little suicidal phase I was moved to a room across from the nurses station. It was much the same but looked at the outside world rather than the internal quadrangle. Same deal, “leave a gap in the curtain so you can be watched.”

I was bored and feeling a bit weird when I started to wonder about the bomb. Not really a bomb as such, but a firestorm. I’m not really that crazy, I think it was an exercise in civil disobedience that I dreamed up while staring out the window. Because in this room staring out the window became a fairly serious pursuit. I had a phone charger, I thought this probably contained a ac to dc ladder, making the plug have the two poles.

If I filled the bin liner with soapy water, separated and exposed the live and earth cables in the plug and put them in the water, then bubbles filled with hydrogen would start to form on the surface. These bubbles could potentially fill the whole ensuite before I took a lighter to them. Never tried it in the end because I am chicken. Just as well.

In my other attempts to kill the boredom I tried to find external wifi, there were a couple of houses nearby that I could see so I switched on the wifi on my phone and checked all the windows I had access to. The only place I could get a connection was my room, that would have been handy but the wifi was encrypted and a search of the apps store only found fake wifi analysers. So fail again. I did look proper mad checking the windows in the common room. Had to explain myself to a couple of inmates.

I did three self portraits, each more detailed and better than the last.

I met an inmate who seemed, seemed, I said seemed sane enough. He was a young guy walking around with electric guitar, playing it. He had been warned to stop playing it in the common areas as people were getting fed up. I asked him about the guitar and off we went. Duncan was terribly serious about his music. Pretentious to a certain extent, but he had the skills to back it up, sometimes I felt a little bit cornered when he was showing me stuff – he had his own private room as well where he was making press packs for his latest release, he had even written all the parts for this non-existent album out in stave. As I say he was good, but more than a little intense, self absorbed and angry. Later on, I got my guitar and bass into the ward, we jammed – I played and sang for the first time in public, the only time. In a psych ward. I played “Between the Bars” – an Elliott Smith song. Duncan was unimpressed.

I spent most of the daylight hours that were my own looking out the window as I mentioned earlier. There was a stunted tree near the window that had no leaves. It did, however, have some weatherbeaten pieces of plastic that blew in the wind. I stared at them a lot. I got why “High Flying Birds” was a cool band name.

One night Duncan and I were playing chess. We were becoming friends I suppose. Carl sat at a neaby table with Clark and other cronies. Carl was bipolar, not a little bit, a lot. He frightened me a bit and I hadn’t really chatted to him. Duncan told me that Carl and he had had a fight recently. Carl started his gambit by being as racist as he could in loud tones. This annoyed me, but I’m not a militant-must-stand-up-for-my-views type. Duncan was and Carl knew it. They began trading insults. I felt like it was really about me and the fact that I hadn’t spoken to Carl but was here playing chess with Duncan, fuck knows if that was right but it was how I felt. Carl began talking loudly about how Duncan was planning his downfall. Planning his downfall on a chess board. I kept my mouth shut and tried to look annoyed. Pathetic but self-conserving I suppose. This was reaching the peak. Duncan sat and drummed his fingers on the table. He threw the last game, the decider, I think he wanted away and I could not argue.

It didn’t kick off but it felt close.

Next time: I get Lord of the Rings geeky on a Harry Potter fan. I lie on the floor. Carl makes me laugh.

 

The first week, I lose the plot.

Hello Reader. Here is my part three of my blog.

The first few days in the ward passed uneventfully, I kept myself to myself and was constantly bombed on chlorodiazepoxide so did not have much time to think. Just felt comfortable. It was as the withdrawal treatment drug began to be withdrawn that I really woke up to everything.

Initially I spent most of my waking hours in my room, scared to go out and interact with anyone. I just left for meals, cigarettes and meds. I was told that the curtain had to be left at least partway open all the time, so I could be observed. This didn’t bother me too much. On the third day I sat at a table with some of the other males. John, Carl and Boab. They were all very chatty and didn’t seem to be insane at all.

John was the oldest with a dry sense of humour, I liked him straight away. He didn’t seem in any way insane or whatever you are supposed to call it. He told me soon after he met that he was in for suicidal intent.

Carl was an unassuming man who had some kind of personality flaw. He had to tell you the same stories every day, he couldn’t listen to what was said to him and he constantly started conversations based on nothing, for instance, “Steven he’s called is he? I knew a Steven once….”

Boab, was well, Boab. A likeable rogue. There was something frightening about him though, I couldn’t put a finger on why.

Anyway, we all got along just fine. John called the repetitive nature of the day’s events “the Fife circle”. This was meds-breakfast-coffee-meds-lunch-coffee-meds-dinner-coffee-meds. The whole day was hung on these things. It meant it was never long before something happened and you knew what that something was going to be. The coffee was so weak. It was like hot water with a hint of coffee. Everyone had to keep Maggie, a lady with Huntington’s disease away from the hot water as she shook so much she poured scalding water everywhere.

About day three was where I started to come unstuck. The level of chlorodiazepoxide had come down and I was starting to feel less like a zombie, the trouble was that I was off alcohol, drugs and venlafaxine which left me feeling very odd. My wife called me on my mobile. She had had an argument with my Mum who told her that we were very rude people and that I was at fault for all that was wrong in our relationship with my parents.

My wife was crying. She was so stressed out that I was in hospital and had been expecting some sort of support rather than accusations. You’ve seen the Incredible Hulk right? That’s what I became. I’ve never been so openly furious. I phoned my parents and got my Dad who told me that it was all my wife’s fault. Bang. I blew a fuse, I went incandescent. I was roaring and screaming down the phone. I wanted to kill him. A couple of nurses came in and asked me to calm down. I ignored them. A lifetime’s worth of pent up anger was unleashed after which I hung up and thought calmly, that’s it for any relationship with my family. They never did visit me in hospital. After I left the ward I had to phone and apologise or I still would have no relationship with them. The only guilt I really felt was that I attacked my Dad when really he was not the problem.

So, in time Ram Man came in. I call him Ram Man, that’s a bit cruel but he did look like that. He assessed how crazy I was and realised that the fury had left me. Then he talked at me for half an hour about why he became a nurse. I was distracted and not really listening. After this I was taken to the medication room and given extra meds. Lorazepam, like diazepam but stronger and a zopiclone, sleeping pill. I was out like a light.

The next night I was really not well. The family thing was looming over me and I was starting to really rattle with no alcohol. After dinner I lay on the ground curled in a ball crying for a while. I decided the time had come to top myself. I took the belt they had left me and closed the ensuite door on the buckle so the belt was secured at the top of the door. I struggled to make a noose out of the rest of it. I tried to hang myself. It didn’t work, the noose kept coming undone. The feeling passed.

I felt I should probably tell the nurses, so I went out asked one of them if I could speak to her privately. In an interview room I got it said. I was detained in the interview room for half an hour while they searched my room. Belt and chargers were removed. Double lorazepam and double zopiclone. Bam. I was knocked out.

Next time, guitar, art and my plan for a bomb.